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Dear Melissa,
Letter From the Editor:
WHAT YOU NOTICE
MATTERS! And what I've
noticed is that no matter how much I fight against it,
the New Year demands planning! I don't mean
resolutions, which tend to be more about changing
our imperfect selves. When we
make such resolutions we are abundantly clear about
what
we want to stop doing: smoking, being lazy,
eating too much, swearing at other drivers, and so
forth. Yet, we're not so clear about what day-to-day
actions will replace our negative actions and get us
to the imagined dream result. So we flounder
and then feel bad about ourselves. UGH! Who needs
that?
No, what I need
is a "what in the heck do I really want to accomplish
in 2007" plan that balances action with
being -- just being myself, being in the
moment, being in flow.
At the conclusion of
2006 I realized that I was so busy "doing" this past
year that I didn't leave enough room for "being." I
didn't get out and take
photographs, I didn't play at painting, I stopped
meditating. I forgot that
happiness and
contentment come primarily from experiencing being,
from focusing
on the rewards of NOW moments, not from always
doing for
the future. You can check off every item of your to-
do list and still not be happy. Don't do that to
yourself in 2007. Be sure to balance goal setting with
noticing what is perfect
at any moment.
With these things in mind,
my 2007 plan will start with an idea of what
strengths I want to develop (marketing and self-help
writing,
speaking). It will include how I want to "be" out in
the world (confident and clear)
as well as how I'd like to feel as I progress
(creatively stimulated
and content in the moment).
Of course, my 2007 plan will need to
include the individual components and the specific
action
steps that will help to manifest the outcomes I'm
working toward. That's why I'm meeting with some
other independent buisness people to work on a
business plan for next year. No matter what you
want to accomplish it's always more fun in a group.
Go figure...the conversations I have with myself just
somehow lack the inspirational spice of outside
perspective.
I
have this idea that I'd
like to create Conscious Communications
information products that facilitate clarity around
personal goals and business success.
I'd love to hear
from
anyone who has personal or business goals they'd
like to attain. What kind of help would be helpful to
you? In
what areas are you desperate for assistance? What
are the burning issues in your life you'd like to
resolve?
. Send all
your comments,
ideas and questions to me
at:
wadscomm@msn.com
Also, winter is
here, has been here and seems pretty determined to
stay here in Seattle. Long gray days
can mean lagging energy levels and wilted spirts. It's
very tempting to try to bolster ourselves with even
more coffee than we alreay consume and gotta love
those
carbs! So I've
called on expert nutrionist Deborah Enos to
provide
some
helpful tips for keeping productivity and energy up
naturally while improving mood. Read both my
interview with her and her tips article
below.
Happy New Year everyone. Here's to all of
our happiness, health and prosperty!
PLEASE FORWARD THIS
EZINE TO ANYONE WHO MIGHT ENJOY IT.
Thanks! And Happy
Melissa Wadsworth is an
author
specializing in creative awareness and personal
growth topics. Through her public relations and public
speaking buisness, she emphasizes the vital
importance of curiosity, clear intentions and
conscious communications to a satisfying and
successful life path.
| Meet Deborah Enos: The "One Minute Wellness Coach" |
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Deborah Enos was raised on an almond and
walnut ranch located in Chico, a small inland northern
California town. Now a sophisticated forty-one,
Deborah says with a smile in her voice and without a
trace of self-consciousness, "I talk about nuts a lot.
I come by that naturally."
You might think
that someone who was raised on a ranch would
naturally be aligned with food and food sources. Yet,
Deborah recalls that she did not become aware of
the power of food until she went to
college.
How College Taught Her The
Power of Food "In college I gained thirty
pounds
pretty fast. This was a real struggle for me since I
had always been an athlete. I lived in a sorority
where fifty percent of the woman had an eating
disorder, which I found alternately fascinating and
sickening," she remembers. "Growing up I took health
and exercise for granted. When I got to college I saw
women grappling with anxiety which they handled
through food. If we got upset it was 'lets make
cookies or have a beer.' At the time it seemed cool
and trendy to have a pizza at 2 am and then
purge."
This experience caused Deborah to reconsider
getting a degree in psychology. She decided that a
degree in health science with a specialty in exercise
physiology was more aligned with her career calling.
As she puts it, "I knew that I wanted to do
something that would be of service to others.
Through my own eye-opening experience and, by
watching others, I realized that overeating was often
directly related to anxiety. I also became
convinced that you can't have health without some
kind of exercise."
The "Dead Food"
Generation After graduation, Deborah
moved to an East Bay (that's San Francisco Bay)
community where she began a private practice as a
nutritionist. This being the 1980s, the majority of her
clients were forty-something empty nesters. These
women had
gained weight over the years, or were women who
had lots of extra time on their hands. "I really didn't
have to work hard to establish a business. Personal
training was just coming into being with Madonna
being the first celebrity to publicize that she had a
personal trainer. This made people aware that they
could hire someone to help with their health and
physical fitness. People from all walks of life --
teachers, hair dressers, even unemployed people who
wanted to be in the best shape possible for
interviews -- hired personal trainers."
Back
then nutrition was simply focused on promoting the
four basic food groups rather than designing
individual
programs for clients. Deborah claims that the 1990s
were absolutely the worst time for food. Everything
was fat-free but loaded with white flour, sugar and
was full of chemicals and pesticides. Basically, most
people were eating what she refers to as "dead
food."
The Dot.com Energy
Surge This coincided with the dot.com
boom, a time in which Deborah started getting
corporate clients. She'd work with a company
president who would then ask her to work with a vice
president or assistant. Soon she was talking to entire
staffs, right down to the mailroom guy. "CEOs
understood that if people felt better about
themselves that
productivity and morale would be through the roof,"
she explains. In the highly competitive high-tech
industry, CEOs were looking for ways to "WOW!"
employees. Perks included everything from car
washes to spa treatments. Yet many of the
industry's high performers were trying to live on
espresso and
pizza.
"Health-wise it was a scary time. I
had
clients who were losing their hair because of stress
and not getting enough good fats. Twenty-five year
olds had the health of fifty-year olds. One client had
a heart attack. He was only twenty-seven!" So in
1996 Deborah began to do heavy research on new
food programs that she could recommend to
clients. "I realized I needed to revamp my business.
People needed to eat differently. So I challenged
myself to find out what clients could eat
conveniently
and quickly and still get optimal energy," Deborah
states.
In 1999 the dom.com bubble burst.
Health and Nutrition Wisdom Deborah
says, "I
went from working with executives in 20-story
buildings with panoramic views of the bay to working
with entrepreneurs who were starting businesses in
their garages." More than ever these driven
clients needed to know how to use diet
and exercise to manage stress, to perform well
mentally, and to power through an afternoon without
getting tired. She had clients make small
changes in their diets. For instance, some switched
from eating cold sugary cereal in the morning to
having eggs. The response from clients was huge.
Clients had lots more energy for the entire day. "That
kind of positive effect is addicting. It's not hard to
convince people to enact changes that make them
feel better. And, by the new millennium people were
very, very sick and tired of feeling sick and
tired."
Deborah moved to Seattle in 2005
and has just finished her first book called "Weight a
Minute: Transform Your Health 60 Seconds at a
Time." The book covers 70 common health challenges
along with a quick and simple solution for each. For
instance, to reduce being bloated you can drink a
squeeze of lemon (a natural diuretic) in water before
going to bed. If you have trouble falling to sleep,
put on socks which will help draw blood into your
extremities.
Deborah lectures to
corporations and works independently with
clients. "My task is to get people off the dieting
merry-go-round and to customize eating programs
that give energy and good
health."
Deborah's
book is available at her Web site:
www.deborahenos.com.
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| Five Tips For Beating the Winter Blahs by guest columnist Deborah Enos |
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Winter is a difficult season for many people. Less
daylight and harsher weather can dampen even the
best resolve to maintain a high level of activity and
to eat right. When I moved from Northern California
to Seattle last year, I found myself inhaling caffeine
in order to adjust to all the rainy grayness. This year
I've
developed a new plan of action. Here are my tips for
staying "sunny" even on the darkest of
days.
- Exercise more on the gray days. Trust
me, you need the endorphins. Generating feel-good
endorphins first thing in the morning can make all the
difference in the world about how you feel about the
rest of your day.
- Limit you sugar
intake first thing in the morning. Once you
indulge in sugar you crave it all day long. Worse than
that, sugar sends your energy on a roller-coaster
ride of highs and lows. The less sugar, the more even
your energy level.
- Drink green
tea. If you have a cup of green tea instead of
coffee at about 10 or 11 am you'll get an energy
boost in the afternoon. The caffeine in green tea can
take three or four hours to kick in. That means when
everyone else is feeling a post-lunch slump around 3
o'clock, your energy will be
fine.
- Go towards the light!
Sit as close to a window as you can if you work
inside, even on gray days. Not getting enough light
can play havoc with your hormones. It's not pretty.
Go for a walk at lunch to get outside if you're stuck
in a dark office. Here in Seattle people use clear
umbrellas to let light through even on rainy
days.
- Get enough good fat.
This is a great time of year to emphasize good fats in
your diet. Good fats are energy boosting and mood
enhancing. Good fats can be found in salmon,
pumpkin and sunflower seeds, avocados and
nuts.
Remember, this is the time of year
we tend to be reactionary (over the top, edgy)
rather than responsive (more natural and appropriate
acting). A good diet and exercise can help.
If you have concerns about whether you
are getting the vitamins and minerals you need,
contact a nutritionist who can help you determine
your individual needs.
Known as The One
Minute Wellness Coach, Deborah Enos is a
motivational speaker, health coach and author. Visit
her at www.deborahen
os.com.
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The practice of mindfulness, of bringing the
scattered mind home, and so of bringing the
different aspects of our being into focus, is called
Peacefully Remaining or Calm Abiding.
All the
fragmented aspects of ourselves, which had been at
war, settle and dissolve and become friends. In that
settling we begin to understand ourselves more, and
sometimes even have glimpses of the radiance of our
fundamental nature.
From "Glimpse After Glimpse - Daily Reflections On
Live and Dying" by Sogyal Rinpoche
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Sometimes it's necessary to ready your soulful
or
emotional self for a new journey (or new year) in
order
to lay the
foundation for the best results. The best
thing you can do is to check in with yourself. We get
so used to doing repetitive tasks, to responding to
crisis and to taking the
same old paths, that we often make assumptions
about what we need or
desire. The following exercise, which you can do
once or repeat on a weekly or monthly basis is a
great way to get at new and useful information that
can help you get clear about your personal or career
path.
Exercise: Get
comfortably seated. Have a notebook by your side.
Take a deep breath and release it. Do this three
times. Close your eyes and try to rest your mind.
(Notice I didn't say clear your mind. For most of us
this is impossible.) Quiet your mind for about five
minutes. Just relax.
Then put a simple
question to
yourself. The question might be: "What do I need
to
accomplish in the next six months?" Or "What will be
an important theme in the coming
months?" "Or "What do I need to know right
now?"
After taking a few moments to really concentrate on
your question, open you eyes and begin writing in
your notebook. Try not to control the flow of
thoughts. Let your thoughts come as they will and
just record them. Act like you are just an
observer of your thoughts. Write for as long as you'd
like or for as long as you feel you are processing
good information. Review what you have written
without judgement.
Are you surprised by
the
information that came? Does it help lead you in a
particular life or business direction? Maybe it just
gives you something interesting to ponder. Enjoy the
wonderful and endless source of information that you
are.
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